emotional healing

Honoring the Sacred Contract

https://youtu.be/d6CPuYiXCc4   For seventeen years, I trained with Shifu Li Tai Liang in Xin Yi Quan, Baguazhang, Tai Chi, and Chi Gong—internal martial arts rooted in Taoist lineages that go back thousands of years. I first began attending Shifu's classes in the Corona section of Queens. But I quickly realized that the depth and complexity of what he was teaching [...]

By |2025-07-29T11:05:49-04:00July 27, 2025|0 Comments

When You Can’t Stop Thinking About Them: Understanding and Healing Romantic Fixation 

https://youtu.be/-CSWkVw-HsA   There’s a trap many people fall into. And while it may not be talked about in a public or structured way, those caught in it often talk about it incessantly—to anyone who will listen. They ruminate, replay, and seek validation. But what’s missing isn’t talk. It’s understanding. Because of that lack of understanding, many people suffer terribly. They [...]

By |2025-07-21T07:23:08-04:00July 21, 2025|0 Comments

How Unprocessed Grief Leads to an Attachment to Suffering 

https://youtu.be/joMCJ-9v16E   Grief is an inevitable part of being human. It’s the raw, unfiltered response to loss—of a loved one, a relationship, a dream, a sense of identity, or even a vision of how we thought life would unfold. In its natural form, grief is a powerful emotion meant to move through us. But when that grief is denied, suppressed, [...]

By |2025-07-14T23:24:10-04:00July 14, 2025|0 Comments

How We Get Caught in the Destructive Cycle of Rumination—and How to Break Free

https://youtu.be/87q_sR_Mtyw   Anyone who’s been through heartbreak, betrayal, or the loss of someone they deeply cared about knows what it’s like to lie awake at night with a mind that just won’t shut off. You replay every word, every moment, wondering if you said or did something wrong. You second-guess yourself endlessly—what you should’ve done differently, what they meant when [...]

By |2025-07-07T22:59:14-04:00July 7, 2025|0 Comments

Heartbroken: Self-Medicating Will Only Compound Your Suffering 

https://youtu.be/Q6HnS4wITV0   In the midst of a devastating breakup—when someone ghosts us, pulls away, or triggers our deepest attachment wounds—many of us get hit with a tidal wave of pain we don’t know how to handle. And our first impulse is often to escape it. We reach for whatever numbs us: food, alcohol, weed, other drugs, casual sex, binge-watching, or [...]

By |2025-06-15T19:43:27-04:00June 15, 2025|0 Comments
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