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How Distraction Prevents Us from Finding Love and Building Life-Affirming Connections

How Distraction Prevents Us from Finding Love and Building Life-Affirming Connections

https://youtu.be/MyV76D7EsMA We’re living in an age of constant distraction—our attention is pulled in a multitude of directions by social media, endless notifications, emails, gaming, Netflix, and the relentless pace of modern life. Many people say they want love, deep relationships, and meaningful human connection, yet they remain transfixed by the glimmer of their screens, endlessly scrolling, checking messages, or [...]

By Ben Oofana|2025-02-13T22:54:26-05:00February 13, 2025|0 Comments

Meditation for Opening the Heart

Meditation for Opening the Heart

https://youtu.be/j09ojuFweBU Elka and I had been seeing each other for about seven months when it became clear that we were not on the same page. Elka wanted very much to get married and start a family, yet I felt an internal resistance that was preventing me from getting closer. Although I cared very much about Elka, I sensed on [...]

By Ben Oofana|2024-07-31T00:51:03-04:00July 31, 2024|0 Comments

The Irreplaceable Value of Meeting in Real Life

The Irreplaceable Value of Meeting in Real Life

https://youtu.be/YD_htdPcrR0 Most of us know couples who met online. Two such couples come to mind: one met on Match in the early days of online dating. Like all couples, they've had their challenges, but in many ways, they are ideal for one another. They have a son who will be graduating from high school soon. Another couple I know [...]

By Ben Oofana|2024-07-23T10:44:16-04:00July 23, 2024|0 Comments

Why Does Love Come So Easily to Some and Not to Others?

Why Does Love Come So Easily to Some and Not to Others?

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mCSP5Zjt4yQ Many of us have known someone for whom love seemed to come naturally. Although they faced challenges along the way, it appeared as if they effortlessly fell into relationships. In contrast, some of us struggle to find any kind of meaningful connection, going years without a companion. Having struggled in this area of my own life at times, [...]

By Ben Oofana|2023-12-01T12:04:04-05:00November 28, 2023|0 Comments

Barriers to Love and How to Clear Them

Barriers to Love and How to Clear Them

https://youtube.com/live/UdL82k-3RnQ Many of us, driven by a genuine desire for connection, find ourselves navigating a path that seems to lead away from that special someone. It's as if barriers, both self-imposed and societal, subtly intervene, distancing us from the deep connection we seek. Some of these barriers can be traced back to early experiences, shaping our capacity to love [...]

By Ben Oofana|2023-10-18T09:54:59-04:00October 16, 2023|0 Comments

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How Distraction Prevents Us from Finding Love and Building Life-Affirming Connections

Meditation for Opening the Heart

The Irreplaceable Value of Meeting in Real Life

Why Does Love Come So Easily to Some and Not to Others?

Barriers to Love and How to Clear Them

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