https://youtu.be/Q6HnS4wITV0 In the midst of a devastating breakup—when someone ghosts us, pulls away, or triggers our deepest attachment wounds—many of us get hit with a tidal wave of pain we don’t know how to handle. And our first impulse is often to escape it. We reach for whatever numbs us: food, alcohol, weed, other drugs, casual sex, binge-watching, or [...]
https://youtu.be/Vk1NhPpozns Heartbreak is a spiritual, emotional, cognitive, and physiological crisis—and one of the most painful and disorienting experiences most of us will ever go through. When we lose someone we’ve loved deeply—or even someone we’ve formed a strong attachment to—it can feel like the ground has fallen out from beneath us. We experience a visceral sense of raw emotional [...]
https://youtu.be/j09ojuFweBU Elka and I had been seeing each other for about seven months when it became clear that we were not on the same page. Elka wanted very much to get married and start a family, yet I felt an internal resistance that was preventing me from getting closer. Although I cared very much about Elka, I sensed on [...]
https://youtube.com/live/DxsVk4P5sy0 In my mid-twenties, I found myself reenacting the traumas of my childhood and adolescence in my romantic attachments and intimate relationships. Matters were further compounded by the fact that I was struggling with an insecure or anxious attachment style. Breakups were especially devastating, and I found myself reenacting patterns of abandonment and unrequited love. This struggle was further exacerbated [...]
People would often show up in my classes when they were in the midst of a devastating breakup or divorce. Others were struggling with patterns of abandonment and unrequited love. Many of these individuals were deeply wounded, and I could see that they weren’t healing on their own. Those who worked with me individually were able to heal the deep [...]
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