https://youtu.be/j09ojuFweBU Elka and I had been seeing each other for about seven months when it became clear that we were not on the same page. Elka wanted very much to get married and start a family, yet I felt an internal resistance that was preventing me from getting closer. Although I cared very much about Elka, I sensed on [...]
https://youtube.com/live/DxsVk4P5sy0 In my mid-twenties, I found myself reenacting the traumas of my childhood and adolescence in my romantic attachments and intimate relationships. Matters were further compounded by the fact that I was struggling with an insecure or anxious attachment style. Breakups were especially devastating, and I found myself reenacting patterns of abandonment and unrequited love. This struggle was further exacerbated [...]
People would often show up in my classes when they were in the midst of a devastating breakup or divorce. Others were struggling with patterns of abandonment and unrequited love. Many of these individuals were deeply wounded, and I could see that they weren’t healing on their own. Those who worked with me individually were able to heal the deep [...]
In any relationship, the emotional bond and level of attachment between individuals can vary greatly. Sometimes, people enter relationships casually, without deep emotional involvement. In such cases, when the relationship ends, it might not cause significant distress. This can be especially true if there were elements in the relationship that were stressful or uncomfortable. For instance, if the partner caused [...]
Relationships have an amazing way of putting us in touch with our deepest vulnerabilities. We are continually changing and so are our partners. And that means our relationship are always changing. We fall in love with one another and maybe we thought we had found true love and that it would last forever. In most instances, we’re going to fall [...]
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