https://youtu.be/j09ojuFweBU Elka and I had been seeing each other for about seven months when it became clear that we were not on the same page. Elka wanted very much to get married and start a family, yet I felt an internal resistance that was preventing me from getting closer. Although I cared very much about Elka, I sensed on [...]
https://youtu.be/DWexZsWozrI This article is really about digesting our lived experiences, emotional responses, and reconnecting to our authentic core, but that's kind of long for a title. The vast majority of people have never learned to work effectively with their emotions. As a result, they’re not thoroughly processing their lived experiences or their subsequent cognitive and emotional responses. Most people do not engage in [...]
https://youtu.be/-ZhMihdi0j0 This article is another edition of a series on "Why Most People Don't Heal... and How You Can Be One of the Exceptional Few Who Do. When I first traveled to Boston in 1994, a friend scheduled a radio interview for me, followed by a workshop at a nearby bookstore. As the interview aired, the phone at the Boston [...]
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zfcBQNP-r3I In today's world, we are constantly pulled in different directions by endless distractions. We're bombarded with phone calls, text messages, and social media updates. From the moment we wake up, many of us find ourselves compulsively scrolling through our never-ending feeds. Our days are filled with a myriad of interactions—conversations with friends, romantic partners, family members, co-workers, and [...]
https://youtube.com/live/DxsVk4P5sy0 In my mid-twenties, I found myself reenacting the traumas of my childhood and adolescence in my romantic attachments and intimate relationships. Matters were further compounded by the fact that I was struggling with an insecure or anxious attachment style. Breakups were especially devastating, and I found myself reenacting patterns of abandonment and unrequited love. This struggle was further exacerbated [...]
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