People would often show up in my classes when they were in the midst of a devastating breakup or divorce. Others were struggling with patterns of abandonment and unrequited love. Many of these individuals were deeply wounded, and I could see that they weren’t healing on their own. Those who worked with me individually were able to heal the deep [...]
In any relationship, the emotional bond and level of attachment between individuals can vary greatly. Sometimes, people enter relationships casually, without deep emotional involvement. In such cases, when the relationship ends, it might not cause significant distress. This can be especially true if there were elements in the relationship that were stressful or uncomfortable. For instance, if the partner caused [...]
Those of us who suffer from abandonment wounds are operating with a tremendous disadvantage. Many of us have never developed the capacity to differentiate between love and our feelings of longing and emotional hunger. In fact, the only time we seem to be able to experience those intense feelings of being in love with another individual is when we’re longing [...]
Breakups can be times of intense emotional vulnerability. That person we loved and were loved by had been so much a part of our lives. Now we hardly ever see them. And when we do, it evokes all kinds of uncomfortable feelings. Or maybe they’ve dropped out of our lives completely. We struggle to make sense of our losses and [...]
Sean felt a desperate longing to have someone in his life during his teens and twenties. What made it even worse is that he could see that so many of his peers were coupling up. But Sean’s attempts to find love were often met with rejection. In more recent years he has experienced a growing sense of resignation. After so [...]
Call (332) 333-5155 to speak to Ben
or to schedule an appointment.
Copyright . Ben Oofana. All rights reserved. Site built by Chris Chuzles
