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About Ben Oofana

Ben Oofana is a healer who began his training with Horace Daukei, one of the last surviving traditional doctors among the Kiowa Indian tribe. Call (913) 927-4281 to learn more or to schedule an individual session. This content may be copied in full, with copyright, contact, creation and information intact, without specific permission. © Copyright 2023 Ben Oofana. All Rights Reserved.

Honoring the Sacred Contract

https://youtu.be/d6CPuYiXCc4   For seventeen years, I trained with Shifu Li Tai Liang in Xin Yi Quan, Baguazhang, Tai Chi, and Chi Gong—internal martial arts rooted in Taoist lineages that go back thousands of years. I first began attending Shifu's classes in the Corona section of Queens. But I quickly realized that the depth and complexity of what he was teaching [...]

By |2025-07-29T11:05:49-04:00July 27, 2025|0 Comments

When You Can’t Stop Thinking About Them: Understanding and Healing Romantic Fixation 

https://youtu.be/-CSWkVw-HsA   There’s a trap many people fall into. And while it may not be talked about in a public or structured way, those caught in it often talk about it incessantly—to anyone who will listen. They ruminate, replay, and seek validation. But what’s missing isn’t talk. It’s understanding. Because of that lack of understanding, many people suffer terribly. They [...]

By |2025-07-21T07:23:08-04:00July 21, 2025|0 Comments

How Unprocessed Grief Leads to an Attachment to Suffering 

https://youtu.be/joMCJ-9v16E   Grief is an inevitable part of being human. It’s the raw, unfiltered response to loss—of a loved one, a relationship, a dream, a sense of identity, or even a vision of how we thought life would unfold. In its natural form, grief is a powerful emotion meant to move through us. But when that grief is denied, suppressed, [...]

By |2025-07-14T23:24:10-04:00July 14, 2025|0 Comments

How We Get Caught in the Destructive Cycle of Rumination—and How to Break Free

https://youtu.be/87q_sR_Mtyw   Anyone who’s been through heartbreak, betrayal, or the loss of someone they deeply cared about knows what it’s like to lie awake at night with a mind that just won’t shut off. You replay every word, every moment, wondering if you said or did something wrong. You second-guess yourself endlessly—what you should’ve done differently, what they meant when [...]

By |2025-07-07T22:59:14-04:00July 7, 2025|0 Comments

Reevaluating Our Relationship with Caffeine

https://youtu.be/B_qGpHvvz40   Caffeine is so woven into the fabric of modern life that most people never stop to question their relationship with it. But for those of us committed to showing up more fully—awake, aware, and embodied—it’s worth taking a closer look at how we’re using caffeine, why we’re using it, and what it might be costing us. As my [...]

By |2025-07-01T22:15:21-04:00June 30, 2025|0 Comments
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