letting go

How Unprocessed Grief Leads to an Attachment to Suffering 

https://youtu.be/joMCJ-9v16E   Grief is an inevitable part of being human. It’s the raw, unfiltered response to loss—of a loved one, a relationship, a dream, a sense of identity, or even a vision of how we thought life would unfold. In its natural form, grief is a powerful emotion meant to move through us. But when that grief is denied, suppressed, [...]

By |2025-07-14T23:24:10-04:00July 14, 2025|0 Comments

How We Get Caught in the Destructive Cycle of Rumination—and How to Break Free

https://youtu.be/87q_sR_Mtyw   Anyone who’s been through heartbreak, betrayal, or the loss of someone they deeply cared about knows what it’s like to lie awake at night with a mind that just won’t shut off. You replay every word, every moment, wondering if you said or did something wrong. You second-guess yourself endlessly—what you should’ve done differently, what they meant when [...]

By |2025-07-07T22:59:14-04:00July 7, 2025|0 Comments

Heartbroken: Self-Medicating Will Only Compound Your Suffering 

https://youtu.be/Q6HnS4wITV0   In the midst of a devastating breakup—when someone ghosts us, pulls away, or triggers our deepest attachment wounds—many of us get hit with a tidal wave of pain we don’t know how to handle. And our first impulse is often to escape it. We reach for whatever numbs us: food, alcohol, weed, other drugs, casual sex, binge-watching, or [...]

By |2025-06-15T19:43:27-04:00June 15, 2025|0 Comments

Common Myths About Healing Heartbreak That Keep You from Letting Go and Moving On 

https://youtu.be/Vk1NhPpozns   Heartbreak is a spiritual, emotional, cognitive, and physiological crisis—and one of the most painful and disorienting experiences most of us will ever go through. When we lose someone we’ve loved deeply—or even someone we’ve formed a strong attachment to—it can feel like the ground has fallen out from beneath us. We experience a visceral sense of raw emotional [...]

By |2025-06-03T23:06:34-04:00June 3, 2025|0 Comments

Finding Closure: Healing the Heart After Ghosting, Flaking, and Other Crazy-Making Relational Drama

https://youtu.be/wAHAbxexUHI A friend of mine recently experienced what felt like the beginning of a real connection with a woman. She was sending him flurries of text messages, and they had started spending time together. There was a sense of closeness—a feeling that something meaningful might be developing between them. Then, out of nowhere, she sent him a strange message: "I [...]

By |2024-10-30T01:31:24-04:00October 29, 2024|0 Comments
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