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How Distraction Prevents Us from Finding Love and Building Life-Affirming Connections

How Distraction Prevents Us from Finding Love and Building Life-Affirming Connections

https://youtu.be/MyV76D7EsMA We’re living in an age of constant distraction—our attention is pulled in a multitude of directions by social media, endless notifications, emails, gaming, Netflix, and the relentless pace of modern life. Many people say they want love, deep relationships, and meaningful human connection, yet they remain transfixed by the glimmer of their screens, endlessly scrolling, checking messages, or [...]

By Ben Oofana|2025-02-13T22:54:26-05:00February 13, 2025|0 Comments

The Irreplaceable Value of Meeting in Real Life

The Irreplaceable Value of Meeting in Real Life

https://youtu.be/YD_htdPcrR0 Most of us know couples who met online. Two such couples come to mind: one met on Match in the early days of online dating. Like all couples, they've had their challenges, but in many ways, they are ideal for one another. They have a son who will be graduating from high school soon. Another couple I know [...]

By Ben Oofana|2024-07-23T10:44:16-04:00July 23, 2024|0 Comments

Why Does Love Come So Easily to Some and Not to Others?

Why Does Love Come So Easily to Some and Not to Others?

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mCSP5Zjt4yQ Many of us have known someone for whom love seemed to come naturally. Although they faced challenges along the way, it appeared as if they effortlessly fell into relationships. In contrast, some of us struggle to find any kind of meaningful connection, going years without a companion. Having struggled in this area of my own life at times, [...]

By Ben Oofana|2023-12-01T12:04:04-05:00November 28, 2023|0 Comments

Is There Love to Be Found Wherever You Go?

Is There Love to Be Found Wherever You Go?

A friend recently said to me, 'If what you say is true, as you heal the deep emotional wounds, you should be able to find love wherever you go.' Well, yes and no. On the surface, this seems reasonable - the idea that doing the inner work necessary to heal and transform ourselves from within should make us [...]

By Ben Oofana|2023-09-14T11:04:45-04:00August 30, 2023|0 Comments

Taking Time to Really Get to Know Someone Before Becoming Physically Intimate

Taking Time to Really Get to Know Someone Before Becoming Physically Intimate

The film “Cold Feet” starring Tom Waits, Sally Kirkland and Keith Carradine revolves around the scheme of two petty criminals attempting to smuggle emeralds from Mexico into the United States. At some point in the film, the character played by actress Sally Kirkland managed to catch the attention of the businessman sitting next to her on the return flight from [...]

By Ben Oofana|2023-06-13T15:43:44-04:00May 19, 2020|0 Comments

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How Distraction Prevents Us from Finding Love and Building Life-Affirming Connections

The Irreplaceable Value of Meeting in Real Life

Why Does Love Come So Easily to Some and Not to Others?

Is There Love to Be Found Wherever You Go?

Taking Time to Really Get to Know Someone Before Becoming Physically Intimate

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