attachment wounds

Shallow Breathing Reinforces Emotional Wounds — Deep Breathing Heals and Transforms

https://youtu.be/zR6tUXPHFyo In addition to reading the article, you’re also welcome to watch the video or listen to the downloadable audio version — whichever helps you absorb the material more fully.   Most people breathe shallowly. Some are aware of it, but many others lack the body awareness to realize what they’re doing. Shallow breathing develops for many reasons. [...]

By |2025-12-02T20:38:50-05:00December 1, 2025|0 Comments

Why Getting Out Into the World Matters More Than Ever in an Age of Dating Apps, Guarded Hearts, and Missed Opportunities 

https://youtu.be/NUjJOL3QmoY   Shortly after relocating from New Mexico to the East Coast, I started seeing a woman from Syria. Despite the cultural differences, at the time it felt like we had a strong resonance with each other, and for a brief moment it looked like things were moving toward marriage. We even had the marriage license. Then she took me [...]

By |2025-11-25T21:05:37-05:00November 25, 2025|0 Comments

Strung Out on a Woman Who Truly Doesn’t Care About You

https://youtu.be/ckyZts38a6c   Relational dynamics vary widely across cultures — something I’ve witnessed firsthand after living for years among Native Americans and spending significant time in China, India, Sri Lanka, and beyond. Everywhere you go, relationships carry a mix of positive attributes and dysfunction. Some nurture closeness and stability, while others create confusion and pain. Here in the United States, I [...]

By |2025-10-02T23:43:28-04:00October 2, 2025|0 Comments

When You Can’t Stop Thinking About Them: Understanding and Healing Romantic Fixation 

https://youtu.be/-CSWkVw-HsA   There’s a trap many people fall into. And while it may not be talked about in a public or structured way, those caught in it often talk about it incessantly—to anyone who will listen. They ruminate, replay, and seek validation. But what’s missing isn’t talk. It’s understanding. Because of that lack of understanding, many people suffer terribly. They [...]

By |2025-07-21T07:23:08-04:00July 21, 2025|0 Comments

How We Get Caught in the Destructive Cycle of Rumination—and How to Break Free

https://youtu.be/87q_sR_Mtyw   Anyone who’s been through heartbreak, betrayal, or the loss of someone they deeply cared about knows what it’s like to lie awake at night with a mind that just won’t shut off. You replay every word, every moment, wondering if you said or did something wrong. You second-guess yourself endlessly—what you should’ve done differently, what they meant when [...]

By |2025-07-07T22:59:14-04:00July 7, 2025|0 Comments
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